Last day of school!

Posted By CHays on June 9, 2010

Some parents say “YAY!” Others say, “Oh boy, here we go”.. whichever parent you are, know that you are not alone!

I personally say YAY and Oh boy, here we go, all at the same time. I get so excited about not having to pack the lunches, not having to wake up at 5:45am to wake the first body, then, I realize… I have 4 children to entertain now for the next 2 months! OH NO!!!

All in all, this year has been quite eventful from grades to personal affairs. It will be a nice school year to end and hopefully we will make a fresh new crisp clean start at our new destination. So many changes, one moving into middle school, new schools, new environment, new friends to make. Personally, I am all for change. I like the thought of getting something new in your blood, being in a place where you have the opportunity to rediscover yourself and remember the things that really matter. I’m very different from other people I know, in this way. A lot of people have a tough time with change, understandably.

I think that I will do my best to learn how to better manage my time this summer, to rekindle some of the things I’ve been lacking this year, the interest of getting outdoors and enjoying nature, and finding projects that will bring our family closer than maybe we have been over the past year. The year has been economically challenging to say the least, however, I am realizing that sometimes it is the simplest things that can change the outcome of my day. The goofy laugh of my little 6 yr old, my 15 yr old daughter calling me momma, even though she is usually using it as a ploy to get something =P, my 11 yr olds wit and humor, and my 12 yr olds toothy smile

It is time to cherish the things I have, the 4 beautiful children that rule my world, time, not to look for schedules to fill, but to constantly allow my time to be filled with their innocence. They are amazing, and they grow too quickly, and it makes me sad when I lose days, months, sometimes a whole year, due to the daily grind of life itself.

If we could only go back to the days of little to no technology… No, I don’t think I would be very good adjusting with that either, however, it does make one wonder if we couldn’t more easily capture the true meaning and importance of the things we have in our lives.

Fast Pace

Posted By CHays on June 4, 2010

Slowing down does not seem to be an option. One thing passes, another comes along, I’m forgetting things quicker than I’m remembering… It’s called the last week of school. It is a no fail pattern since I turned about 36. Everything is fine, well, sort of.. I have a better handle on schedules and such, then comes the ending of the school year, it’s almost as if my body goes into an automatic shutdown mode, kind of like the weekend. When Friday comes around the corner, I’m sleeping in until 10 am on Saturday, and I really don’t seem to have any control over it. Monday morning and I’m back up at 5:30 am.

I’m really not ready for summer. I am but I’m not. It will be nice not having to be here, be there, concerts, games, parties, but my days of peace and tranquility will be gone for another 2 months, which means it’s time for me to take on a new schedule. Now I get the parks, the pool, the beach, miniature golf, bowling… ARGH!

This summer we will be moving to Michigan, so there is another thing to add to the chaos right? Actually, that is the only thing I’m looking forward to this summer. I’m ready to leave Florida… tired of the weather, soon the beaches will be a waste of time, and I’ve always lived in the midwest.. it is very different, people, attitudes & more.

What it all comes down to is, there will be a lot of change this summer, and I guess I’ll be ready for whatever life throws my way… again :)

Have a good one all!

Graduation Day!

Posted By CHays on June 3, 2010

My little buddy, Keenan, moving on to middle school. As you can all see, I have missed much time in between, sadly. Not that I haven’t been keeping track, I am a picture and video freak, so I have all my little memories in track, just, unfortunately, not in writing.
I remember the beginning of this school year, literally like it was yesterday. I remember saying at the beginning, we have a long long way to go, and here I sit today, watching my little boy, who used to run around in his little Harry Potter glasses, grow up so quickly. Keenan’s milestones this school year would include the transition from glasses to contacts, the desire to keep his hair long and hippy, 3 girlfriends… sigh… and a trip to John Cassablanca’s for an interview for representation; you see, Keenan’s one main goal in life right now is to get on the big screen. He DEFINATELY has what it takes, he has the wit, the personality, he’s a funny kid, and soooo quick with a comeback, but I refuse to push the child acting environment into one of my kids lives.
I get so tired and sad for these kids out there, the Lohans, the Spears, the whomever it is and will be next who have struggled throughout a time in their lives that should be normal, kid, fun times! Not that this is the way it turns out for all of them, but the opportunity for the prevailing pressures from attention, media, fans & other will play it’s toll and I can’t imagine that there is a whole lot to deter that.

I want him to keep his interests. If acting is what he wants, that is what I want for him, but I think there are other ways to move him up that cycle, community plays, acting classes, clubs, etc. that can, for the time being, fulfill that desire and at least prepare him better for that kind of future.

Anyhow, back on subject :)

Keenan has come a long way in his little life, and he is super excited about middle school, not so happy about moving, but he will be fine, he always is.
I call our family the military family that’s not… we aren’t military, but we seem to move like military families. Whenever we get to where we are going, Keenan says he is going to hate it, and by the end he is saying how he’ll never find a better place.

He’s a little stinker sometimes, and one of my best helpers other times, Keenan is my 3rd baby, and is uniquely special to me. As each of my children are. I have big hopes for Keenan’s future!

Terrible Twos

Posted By CHays on June 3, 2010

Originally Posted:
2006-05-08 | 6:17:45 pm

A true balancing act!Yes folks, they are out there; actually, right in my own house! Reilley turned 2 February 13th. He was a Friday the 13th babe and I’m wondering now if there wasn’t more to that! He really is a cutie pie. I have a hard time getting mad at him for just about anything he does. Maybe it’s because I know that he will be my last child, and things are a little less stressful than they were back when I had my other 2 boys – 1 yr and 2 days apart. With Garrett & Keenan, it seemed like I had just had a baby when … here we go again! Brianna is my oldest, she is 11. She is my helper, for the most part. She also likes to give me grief, but I suppose that is just her strong willed nature. She has had this nature, however, since she was 1. Maybe I am just becoming a little more tolerant in my “old” age of 35 yrs. Many might say, “what are you talking about, old?” Well, my gray strands running wild here and there tell all, and I’m sure I know where they came from! Ok, I have many many years until I am old, but I do feel it at times, achy back, lack of energy, cracky knees! Maybe a better word would be, run down. Reilley likes to test my every nerve these days. Back on the subject of terrible two’s, I’m sure many of you mommys with those cute little tots will agree when I say, WHAT A HANDFUL! My son likes to get up on everything. He will find a way, I kid you not. He will stack, he will move furniture… yes he is one tough little buggaboo! As a matter of fact, I am happy to post this pic for all of you moms out there who feel alone, like you are the only one with a child so talented! You can also now see where my grays are coming from. :-) Tell us about your T2.

It’s About Time!

Posted By CHays on June 3, 2010

Originally Posted:
2006-05-08 | 11:31:08 pm

Finally, one of my friends has her fourth child. Now, I have someone to compare notes with, someone who can feel my pain! Really, not so painful, if you think about it, just one more peanut butter and jelly sandwich :-) That is what my older sister always says. I think it’s cute. See, she has 6 children, 5 girls & 1 boy. Did I mention Catholic?

My friend and I talk, usually, a couple of times a day. We both have 2nd graders in the same class. She called me one day and said, “now I understand!” I think that we are both losing our minds, which is really sad because I always counted on her to clue me in on even my own schedule of the day…. she was always very much on top of things. I don’t know what it is, but it seems like after a few kids, you don’t remember things as well anymore, you stop mid-sentence frequently and suddenly the subject has changed, unknowing to you, and you wonder to yourself if life will ever be normal again. Reilley is 2, and I can say that I have yet to get it back!

I’m not sure it was planned, not in my mind to have 4 children, but funny story… I went on a trip with one of my sisters years ago to California. While we were there, we thought it would be fun to have our palms read. You can find one of those on every street corner, so anyhow, I went first, I had a long life line, blah blah, and my palm showed 4 children in my future! My thoughts- “yeah whatever, I’ll stick with one”…. I wish I had written that lady’s name down, I could sure use her right now for my lotto picks!

Really though, four is fun. We have a good time. Reilley came at just the perfect time. I have a most wonderful mommy’s helper and the other 2 boys are also very good with him. They think he is cute right now…. muahahaha! Anyone else here hit the final 4?

Weight Up!

Posted By CHays on June 3, 2010

Originally Posted:
2006-05-22 | 4:33:13 pm

Ok, here I sit, a little peace and quiet on my end. My husband took Reilley out to lunch, my other 3 are at school, and I have my mind back for at least the next 1/2 hour.

I spend much of my days trying to figure out what I need to get done, if I have the energy to do it, and then, I will finally throw in a load of laundry, or change some bed sheets, or vacuum the floors. Picking up toys is a neverending deal, that I do allllllll day long. Right now, I am going to sit here and type away.

I have been, for the last year or so, trying to figure out the best way to lose weight. Not one of my stronger issues. After all of my children, I would say that I was probably back down to, or at least very close to being at the weight I was before within, 6 months to a year. Not this time. After I had Reilley, I told myself that I was not going to obsess over my weight, I would lose it over time, and just enjoy the moments, not worry about the little things, right? Here I am, 2 yrs later, and I really want to get rid of the excess.

One of my biggest problems is the evenings. At night is when I usually get on this heap of a computer and start messing around with all of my stuff… my websites, my email, whatever the case. Then, all of a sudden, I need a snack. Yes, I can say with all uncertainty that if I could eliminate this nightly computer routine, I would probably be in much better shape. Oh, and then, there’s the coffee. I don’t know how or why it happened, but I started drinking coffee about 3 years ago. First time in my life. I never, NEVER liked coffee. I hated the smell, the taste, and I just always drank water. I guess that is my other BIG culprit. My water intake has drastically decreased, while I sip my days away on coffee.

Anyhow, I really have to start looking for a way to get back in shape. I’m not seriously overweight, but I have some problem areas that I would really like to get toned back up, and I do need to drop some pounds. If anyone out there has some thoughts on how to get the energy back and get into a routine as a stay at home mother, without the words “Weight Watchers” or “Jenny Craig” I would love to get some input.

Maybe some of you out there would like to team up with me on some kind of check in support deal. I seem to work well when I have other people to work with.

Lazy Days

Posted By CHays on June 3, 2010

Originally Posted:
2006-06-23 | 6:29:24 pm

This is one lazy day for me!

It’s funny how when my kids are in school, my body operates like an alarm clock; early to rise, always late to fall. Summer break hit for my kids at school on the 8th of this month and I have had maybe 3 early days since. My body just seems to go into this auto shut down mode. We have all been waking up later, except for my buggy Rei of course, which is another subject.

Ok, you didn’t ask for it, but here goes… Reilley has got to move out! No, not out of my home, out of my room. My husband set Reilley’s crib up on my side of the bed a while back, of course, and for some reason, there is only about 2 inches of walk room between my bed and his crib, *sigh*.

Reilley has been waking up at about 3 am, almost every morning, and just starts talking to me. It’s almost as if he is in the middle of a dream and he just kind of brings me into it. Last night he woke up talking about fighting the monsters; though he did say it with a smile and his eyes only half open. I said “ok baby, goodnight.” Nope, that didn’t work! He continued on with his conversation and I simply pulled him into my bed and went back to sleep. That worked!

I did, finally, and reluctantly wake up and literally stumbled downstairs to grab a cup of coffee. I never drank coffee, never until Reilley, that is. I downed about 2 cups before going up and waking the rest of the group. Normally, I would just let them sleep, not sure what I was thinking… Zombie comes to mind. Anywho, made breakfast, and they were off doing their own thing. Reilley is now napping and lunch is over, we are going to finish this day with some lazy outdoor fun… When I say lazy outdoor fun, I am talking, kids running around playing, mom either laying out or puzzle bookin it. Then, I will think about dinner.

Not a real exciting blog today, just a few thoughts… baby is waking up:-)

Have a good day all!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Posted By CHays on June 3, 2010

Original Post:
2007-02-16 | 12:07:28 am

WOW! It has been a LONG time since I wrote my last post. I am going to be a little more regular in here now; things have slowed down a bit.

The holidays are always such a hectic time of the year, not for just myself I am sure, but the holidays don’t quite end in December for us. Birthdays begin in January, then February, then March! Man did I plan those well!

My oldest, Brianna’s birthday is January 17th. It is always a tough time as there isn’t much to do on the birthday end. It is always cold, usually snow on the ground, and you can only do so much without having a sled party. I usually try to find something crafty on the birthday end for her and her friends because she is really into the hands on. Last year we had a cake decorating party. It took me over a week to find something unique that everyone else wasn’t already doing. Finally, after calling our city chamber, and getting a connection to a bakery, who had a connection to another bakery on the other side of town that had just started this birthday cake decorating party business, and what FABULOUS fun that was!

Well, this year, I tried, but we had to put a limit on friends, so Brianna invited 2 of her friends and they went to see ‘Arthur and the Invisibles’. The movie was very cute. After the movie, they came to our house for pizza, cake/ice cream & presents. It is so hard to believe that my once little baby girl is already 12 years old! (She acts 15…. that is another story for another day.)

Next on the list, other than my birthday, which was the 10th of February, was Reilley’s birthday. He is on the 13th of Feb. I think I mentioned in an earlier post that he was born on Friday the 13th. We had a family party, well, sort of, we had the neighbor kids over for cake & ice cream, but we had a pretty simple 3rd b-day party for him. He had so much fun though.

It was wild, he acted like such a big boy all day. He walked around, all day long saying this is my special birthday. Special is his word in just about every sentence these days. He got a few Thomas Train toys, his favorite, and a couple of other things, it was a great day for the Rei!

Garrett and Keenan are up next! Garrett’s birthday is March 18th and Keenan’s is March 20th. They have already notified me that they would not be celebrating their birthdays together this year, so we will work on this shortly.

My husband’s birthday is in May, after that, we are in the clear! Well, there are many many other birthdays in my family, with 7 siblings, one with 6 children, one with 3 and another with 3 kids. That is 12 nieces & nephews… we are so blessed to have such a big family!

How well did you plan the birthdays of your children?